Seeing Light in Darkness (Letting Go Workshop)

July 25, 2009
moving on from resentment, regret and rejection.

moving on from resentment, regret and rejection.


In the chamber of secrets I dwell
The dungeons of gloom I rattle my chains
The chains that hold me not
My mind that enslaves me within
Show me the inner light to transcend it all
Shine the path
Salvation is near
Lead the way
Salvation is here
Light in the darkness
Gloria illumina


Have we not all met with regrets, feelings of rejection and resentment? Do we choose to live in that cheerless past? Or do we decide to move out that dim arena and embrace the future? Sometimes the past may cling like a serpentine noose, the more one struggles, the tighter it grips. Be it grief that cuts through the heart, may it be broken promises, fading faith in all. Let us be free from such constraints; let us find peace within ourselves once again, and may that peace be for others as well. We invite you once again to join us, the waltz has not ended, it has only just began…

The Program

Promise me no more empty promises
Give back my dreams
Grief beyond grief
The heart song
Finding our souls again


“We must be willing to let go of the life we have planned, so as to have the life that is waiting for us”

Energy Exchange : SGD33 (admin fee) + Love Donations for subsequent sessions
*Prerequisite: Participants have attended ‘My Way With Beliefs’ Workshop & the 1-on-1 session that preceded.

“Knowledge is learning something every day. Wisdom is letting go of something every day.”


My Way with Beliefs

July 25, 2009


eliminating self-limiting beliefs


“The mind is not a vessel to be filled but a fire to be kindled.”


Our beliefs should be tools that empower ourselves instead of a limitation to achieve our highest potential.

Dearest friends, do you feel at times being stuck and unable to move forward, having arrived at a situation where you are faced with limited choices that don’t even serve you at all.

Are you defeated, or have you resigned to its will? Tucking it all beneath your comfort pillow, and hoping for the miracle fairy to arrive won’t improve the situation. Is there even a solution?

We would like to bring you on a journey of soul-discovery, to acknowledge your realities, your hopes and fears; what starts your day with a sparkle on your face, and what gives you those sleepless nights. Empowerment starts from within and our very beliefs that shape everyday of our lives.

Discover who you can be.
Discover who you are.

Let us walk together and leave our regrets behind.

The Menu:

~ Our Journey through Life
~ Beliefs that blind us
~ Having Awareness
~ Invisible Options
~ The Golden Soul

Workshops dates:

Every fortnight, please call Barry @ 96356353 to check proper dates =)

Energy Exchange:

SGD 24 (admin fee)
+ freewill LOVE donation

To register:

Please come down personally to Going OM (open everyday, 1400hrs til late) to make payment (admin fee) and confirm a place in the workshop, first- come, first-served basis.
Alternatively, please call Barry @ 9635 6353.

There will be a complimentary tea session after each workshop to help you address some issues that you maybe facing. It will be a time of sharing for everyone and an opportunity for one-on-one healing.

Choices that are presented to you should never be few but infinite and abundant.

Decision-making should never be difficult and tiresome but fun, engaging and simple.

Love & Blessings
The OM Team

Do check out the past workshops comments on the wall!

As ‘My Way with Beliefs’ is the first in the series of three workshops, do look out for the next workshop on the subject of ‘letting go’!


Movement Thursdays

July 24, 2009

~ Have no expectations, as the best moments are of spontaneity!~



Movement Thursday is a get together of fire shapers, poi spinners, staff twirlers, skill toy artists, object manipulators to hang out and practise and mind meld with one another in Singapore
Exchange skills, tricks and connect with your inner Jedi, playground gymnast, urban ninja and superhero every thursday, from 8pm. Spandex outfits optional. Toys, good vibes, open minds mandatory.



At Going OM, fun is an understatement.

..and yes, it is of love and blessings, too!!


Mystic Wednesdays

July 24, 2009

Rejuvenate in an evening of soul-discoveries..


Going OM presents..
Mystic Wednesdays : Transformation with Magic and the Arts of the Mystics.
Every Wednesday, 8pm to 11pm

~ Magic and Mysticism becomes a very personal experience when it has nothing to hide. ~

~ Magic and Mysticism becomes a very personal experience when it has nothing to hide. ~


Magic is powerful drama and the world, its stage. When people really witness magic, they hardly forget it. Magic strips away logic, and brings us to a place of constant wonder and enjoyment.

Be enchanted by Danny Koh, as he smashes the “magician stereotype” by putting up his own cutting edge and original style of magical presentations.

Experience how Danny connects with you on an extremely deep, emotional and personal level, and how he subtly orchestrates the impossible before your very eyes! If a picture paints a thousand words, Danny’s portrait of magic will grip you when you least expect it, leaving you speechless and asking for more!!

What is mysticism about? It is a way to attain knowledge and understanding. It’s close to philosophy, except in philosophy you deal with the profoundly known while in mysticism you deal with the profound unknown.

Join us as Tang Xun give you insights that can open up doors you never thought were available. Through Xun’s intuitive readings, you will heighten your awareness by having a better understanding of the self. And, leave knowing that you can make better decisions in whatever circumstance you are in.

Indulge in yourself when Barry Tan shares with you an introduction to the secrets of Crystals and its magical properties. Pamper yourself with a clear Quartz crystal that clears a cluttered mind or a Moonstone to soothe and balance the emotions. These Crystals and many others, together with other wands and pendulums are available in the NewAge shop!

Alternatively, spend the evening exploring and handling various divination tools! Pick up a book on psychic powers, try your hand at a spread of tarot cards or read the Celtic rune stones for positive affirmations. Perhaps you can even pick up basic hypnosis for personal empowerment, learn numerology to fascinate your peers and feel the energies of a crystal wand. Guidance and instructions will be on hand.

Get insights to the mystery of life on Mystic Wednesdays!!

Love & Blessings!!!
The OM Team.


calmly observe

July 24, 2009


If you calmly observe, you will more clearly see situations for what they really are.


How many times when we have allowed our past experiences and paradigms to demarkate and judge our present moments?

To do this is to almost experience life in a well. Like that folk tale of a frog that lives in a well, only knowing that the sky is as big as the mouth of the well. Could you imagine the number of opportunities that you could have not seen or could have missed out, because of a paradigmed and conditioned mindset?

Free your mind. Free your mind and allow a non-judgemental awareness to take over. To calmly observe is to observe in the mind of a new-born baby, To see and judge every predictament or situation with an unbiased point-of-view. In this way, you will allow yourself to see situations for what they really are.

Do know that there’s always two sides to a coin; and a flipside to every situation, problem or occurence? A Yin-Yang example of opposites and underlying meanings. Could there have been a lesson that you could have rejoiced about?

Love & Blessings!

calmly observe


move on

July 24, 2009


See beyond immediate circumstances. Clear the decks of any old grievances. Learn from the past and move on by tapping into your inner resources of self-worth and humility. With honesty and commitment, softly let go and let others change. There are new horizons, new growth and a new lease of life.


Our beliefs are created out of our past experiences; the situations that we get ourselves into and the people that have crossed our paths. These beliefs shape our thoughts and our reactions now, in the present. And through this process, we create the reality we want to see, which further reinforce these beliefs that become the facts we strongly attached ourselves to.

Are we missing out on something here?

Have we actually become the very victims of our own reality and thus, our past?

See beyond immediate circumstances and challenge our beliefs.
Learn the lessons from the past and move on by tapping into your inner resources of self-worth and humility. When you clear these decks of old grievances, you are emptying vessels and more importantly, renewing your heart.

Change is eminent. With honesty and commitment, softly let go and allow others to change. When you move on, others around you move on too.

What better way to face the bigger reality of life and its tribulations than like one who sees new horizons, new growth and new opportunities all the time.

Love & Blessings,

Keep your face towards the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.

Keep your face towards the sunshine and the shadows will fall behind you.


clean & tidy

July 24, 2009


The most important places to keep clean and tidy are my mind and heart. If I allow the thoughts that shouldn’t see the light of day to flourish, I can never have any real self-respect. By starting each day in quiet reflection and pouring positive, loving thoughts into my mind, I can gradually clean out cynicism and unkindness.


How many times have I allowed my ego to get the better of my true self?
To inflict onto others -misery, sadness and disappointment- the consequences of my thoughts, words and actions.

I feel resentment, rejection and regret. These feelings can be avoided if only I had chosen not to give attention to these negative and impure thoughts that had caused them in the first place.

I am kind, loving and good-natured. I choose to be aware of my mind and its judgements (ego). Therefore, through constant reflection, I only concentrate on; and allow, positive and loving thoughts into my mind. This added catalyst of ‘reflection’ in my thought-processes plough through the depths of my mind, filtering out the impurities and at the same time revealing its brilliance.

Love and Blessings,
I am Barry